Events


May 23, 2010 - Sleeping Babies, Sleeping Parents

Please join The Association of Child Development Specialists  for a Roundtable Discussion on "Sleeping Babies, Sleeping Parents:

Working with Families and Their Challenges Managing Sleep”


A roundtable discussion on the cultural, developmental and physical issues family members encounter in their homes when managing sleep for their families, and how we as professionals support and develop restful practices with families.

Facilitated by Randi Abramowitz, MSW
Infant Toddler Program Coordinator, Cassidy Preschool
President, ACDS Executive Committee

 

WHEN:            Sunday, May 23, 2010

9:30am - 10:00am ~ Coffee, Bagels & Networking

10:00am - Noon ~ Discussion

 

WHERE:          Community Room @ 865 Comstock Ave.

Los Angeles, CA  90024

 

Directions:  From the San Fernando Valley, take the 405 Freeway south; exit at Wilshire Blvd. east.  Continue east 1 ¼ miles to Comstock.  Turn left at the signal at Comstock.  From the south, take the 405 Freeway north; exit at Wilshire – Westwood.  Continue east 1 ¼ miles to Comstock. Turn left at signal at Comstock.  There is ample street parking on Comstock

 

R.S.V.P.          If you plan to attend, kindly respond by Monday, May 17, 2010 to Pepper Starobin by phone (818-996-6785) or email ( This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it ) so that we may set up the room to accommodate all who attend.

 
April 18, 2010 - “Facilitating Communication Between Schools, Companions and Therapists”

Please join The Association of Child Development Specialists for a Roundtable Discussion on

“Facilitating CommunicationBetween Schools, Companions and Therapists”

A roundtable discussion for those interested in addressing communication between school staff, therapeutic companions and therapists.

Topics to be shared include frustrations regarding finding the time for collaboration, who will pay for each professional’s time for the collaboration, and the legal issues about sharing information. This roundtable will provide an opportunity for open discussion and collaboration about these issues, and we welcome all who are interested.


WHEN: Sunday, April 18, 2010

    9:30am - 10:00am ~ Coffee, Bagels & Networking

    10:00am - Noon ~ Discussion

WHERE: Community Room @ 865 Comstock Ave.

    Los Angeles, CA  90024

    • Directions:  From the San Fernando Valley, take the 405 Freeway south; exit at Wilshire Blvd. east.  Continue east 1 ¼ miles to Comstock.  Turn left at the signal at Comstock.  From the south, take the 405 Freeway north; exit at Wilshire – Westwood.  Continue east 1 ¼ miles to Comstock. Turn left at signal at Comstock.  There is ample street parking on Comstock

    • R.S.V.P. If you plan to attend, kindly respond by Monday, April 12, 2010 to Pepper Starobin by phone (818-996-6785) or email ( This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it ) so that we may set up the room to accommodate all who attend.Your browser may not support display of this image.

 
February 7, 2010 - "Father in the Triangle" presentation by Dr. Robert Moradi

On Sunday February 7, 2010, Dr. Robert Moradi gave a presentation to ACDS members entitled “Father in the Triangle.”  Dr. Robert Moradi is a Jungian analyst and Board Certified Psychiatrist in private practice in Los Angeles. Dr. Moradi is an Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine.  He teaches at the Graduate Center for Child Development and Psychotherapy, Cedars Sinai Medical Center, Reiss-Davis Child Study Center and the C.G.Jung Institute of Los Angeles.  Dr. Moradi has published and presented extensively on the treatment of adults, children and their families.

A man’s relationship to his wife is altered profoundly with the arrival of a baby; as new mothers are swallowed up by the needs of the infant, the father is often marginalized and lonely.  He finds himself in the same category as his father and his ideas about being a father, and has to try and integrate this past sense of his father, his past sense of self, and the new expectations of him.  As a consequence of experiencing being left out, the father’s defensive reactions might include envy, anger and shame which can result in behaviors (too much work, substance abuse or an affair) and projections which can come to define the family’s psyche.

When the child becomes a toddler, the father has the opportunity to connect with his child in a more central way.  The parenting that he provides for his child can give him the opportunity to connect to his own vulnerabilities, the struggles of his wife and the vulnerabilities of his child.  In the empathetic connection learned by fathering, a man can move toward developing a mature masculinity.  This mature masculinity allows for the differentiation of the child, increased empathy for the man’s own father, and increased compassion for his wife.

Fathers who are psychologically involved have children who are more compassionate toward others, have increased cognitive competence, less sexual stereotyping and greater internal locus of control than children who come from families where the father is not psychologically involved.

Dr. Moradi spoke of the usefulness of therapy groups with fathers to help them become less isolated and more aware of the commonality of their position.  This reduces their stress and increases their compassion for their partner which in turn strengthens the family.

 
March 14, 2010 - Annual Networking Breakfast

On March 14, 2010 Diane Danis spoke to ACDS about autism in a lecture entitled “Evolving Concepts: My Journey to Understand Autism’s Biomedical Roots.”

Autism was first termed by a physician named Leo Kanner in the 1940’s.  This problem historically has shifted from being viewed as a problem in the mother child relationship to being known as a biologically based disorder that is genetically based.  It is defined behaviorally and observationally.  Symptoms include impaired social interaction, impaired non verbal cues, difficulties with spoken language, restricted, repetitive, stereotyped patterns of behavior and delays in symbolic or imaginative play. The risk to siblings is 20% higher than in the normal population.  There are differences in the structure and function of people with autism; it is a brain-behavior problem.  These children do not all present in the same fashion so each intervention needs to be customized.

Lots of these children have gastro intestinal problems, allergies and family histories of autoimmune disorders. Dr. Danis has observed that many of these children are sicker than the general population and so she looks for sleep disorders, dental problems, allergies and gastro-intestinal problems in the children that are brought to her.

A question that has been raised by researchers is whether or not gene expression can be effected by the environment?  In addition, can the immune system be affected by the environment?  Are there mitochondrial disorders in children who are affected with autism?  It is thought that there may be multiple systems that can lead to autism.  Researchers are also wondering how different body systems are interacting with the brain.  In different children multiple systems are affected differently.

Dr. Danis observes that autism seems to be a disorder of interconnectivity not only between the children affected and others but possibly of interactivity of these children’s internal systems.  There are thoughts that there might be a cumulative toxic load rather than a specific toxin that is affecting these children’s systems.

Recommended therapies include speech, school, sensory integration, a reduction in the toxic load and specific diets.  Dr. Danis recommends that parents educate themselves about Floortime and become sophisticated about using it.  When a child comes in to see Dr. Danis she does an observation and gets a history (family and personal).  She advises families to eat organic and unprocessed foods and get rid of all pesticides and household toxins.

When she refers families to mental health professionals she is expecting that the professional will facilitate the relationship between the parent and child, that there will be a great deal of talk about the relationship between the parent and child.  She has found that the most important thing is the mobilization of the family to get services and to begin to have fun and joy in the relationship between the parent and the child.  She has noted that when the clinician is able to have fun with the child this greatly helps the parents have fun with the child.

Dr. Danis uses the National Standards Reports to determine the status of therapies she encounters; they break out therapeutic interventions into proven, emerging and unproven therapies.  She recommends that professionals learn to be well informed judges of claims and reports.  She has found that SSRI’s are the medications of choice for the most part with these autistic children when medications are necessary.

Her overriding message is that it takes a team- a village- to help these children and families.

 
January 10, 2010 - Assessing Children on the Pervasive Developmental Disorder Spectrum

On January 10th Dr. Alessia De Paolo Gottlieb came to talk to ACDS about “Assessing Children on the Pervasive Developmental Disorder Spectrum”.  Dr. Gottlieb is board certified as a developmental pediatrician as well as both a child and adolescent psychiatrist.  On February 1st she will begin working on a child assessment team at New York Presbyterian Hospital that will focus on development, biology, neurobiology and family systems.  Dr. Gottlieb will continue returning to Los Angeles every two months for two weeks in order to attend to the needs of her patients.

Dr. Gottlieb began by talking about how social babies are from birth, that they have a good deal of joint attention, they imitate and are filled with affect.  A child at risk for a neurodevelopmental disorder (autistic spectrum disorder or pervasive developmental disorder is)  often not expressive and does not register social cues.  A delayed child will look at your finger when you point instead of your eyes and then the item.  He has diminished focus on your eye gaze and instead tracks your mouth, the edges of your face and the item being shown rather than your eyes.   Most children are brought in with parents reporting growing concerns since birth or a sudden loss of functioning beginning at 18 months.

Dr. Gottlieb stated that it is never enough to look at symptoms only and that the professional must always look at the etiology of the disorder.  Children with obsessive compulsive disorder, anxiety, Sensory Integration issues, ADHD and selective mutism all can compensate with behavioral symptoms that can be very rigid and look autistic to the non discriminating eye.  When looking at a child one must take in temperament, caregiving environment, attachment, family system and the child’s relationship to his environment.  In doing her assessments Dr. Gottlieb meets with various family members multiple times during the course of an evaluation.

She meets with the parents alone initially (2 hours) and gets a sense of the difficulties they are experiencing with their child.  Included in this is their sense of both parenting and being parented.  She then will do a visit where she can observe the child in his environment without the child knowing her.  She might do a home or a school visit.  She will include standard testing sessions with a child where she uses a developmental screener (the ADOS, Bayley, Mullen or another tool).  And finally, a session with the parents where she discusses the child with the parents.  Dr. Gottlieb’s profile of the child is one that is as descriptive as possible rather than exclusively diagnostic.  Her goal is to help the family understand how to help the child move through the child’s own developmental needs; to have the parenting adjusted to the child’s specific profile.  She gives the parents a picture of their child that will inform their choice in terms of education and daily interactions.  Dr. Gottlieb continues to follow families after she has done an assessment; she views herself as their ongoing coordinator of care and as such is available to families 24 hours a day seven days a week.

A question was raised about sensory integration.  Dr. Gottlieb reported that the American Medical Association does not include it in their standards of care for ASD (they recommend lots of behavioral intervention and medication) although she does use it in some cases.  She stated that SI treatments are often helpful when treating anxiety, ADHD or autism.  In her experience 10-20% of her patients have sensory integration issues without another disorder.

In being asked about the origins of autism Dr. Gottlieb stated that the field simply does not know what causes it.  The medical field is looking at both genetics and the environment as possible contributors to neurodevelopmental disorders.  Regardless of the cause what the doctor made clear is that it takes a village of caring, patient and compassionate people to help manage a child who is experiencing difficulties.

 
November 15, 2009 - The Developmental Cycle of the Family

On November 15, 2009, Saul Brown gave a presentation to ACDS members.  The title was “The Developmental Cycle of Families” although he covered a good deal on families in general. He began with the complexity of interpersonal relations from marriage to the nursing home and, in fact, the different “marriages” that one encounters along that continuum within the same family. In meeting with a child experiencing difficulties, we also meet their family with all of the complexities that it holds during whatever phase it may be in. The multiple relationships or systems that exist within a family can be daunting to sort out, and one of our challenges as professionals is to figure out which subsystem to enter - and how best to enter that system to effect change. The questions “Where do I enter in?” and “Do I enter in?” become the primary concern of the professional as they begin the work.

As we meet the family, we are looking at the structure and patterns between family members attending to mutual nurturance subsystems.  We focus on the subsystems in families that facilitate attachment, the development of self, and the developmental process of each member.  These subsystems include:

  • the spousal subsystem
  • the mutual nurturance subsystem
  • the empathic subsystem
  • the affectional subsystem
  • the conflict resolving subsystem
  • the verbal and non-verbal communication subsystem
  • the autonomy-encouraging subsystem
  • the parental coalition subsystem
  • the sibling subsystem
  • the pleasure-in-action subsystem
  • the sexual-sensual subsystem
  • the memory subsystem and the separation-reunion subsystem



Once we determine what system(s) to turn our attention to, we must figure out where that system is developmentally.

In Dr. Brown’s formulation, the first phase of a union is two people establishing a basic commitment to their marriage.  The second involves the creation of mutually nurturing subsystems that are multi-directional.  As children get older the family moves into a third phase which involves the establishment of subsystems that are encouraging of each person’s sense of self and relative autonomy.  The fourth phase includes facilitation of ego mastery or internal self organization and the capacity for adapting to increasingly complex environmental experience.  As the child enters adolescence, and then young adulthood, sustaining family integration becomes the task.  Finally as everyone ages even further, the family enters phase six, the final phase, which involves maintaining ongoing systems for mutual validation within the family even as role functions and circumstances change.

In introducing the audience to the multi-faceted, multi-layered and multi-directional aspects of the family system, Dr. Brown did much to educate his audience and left them with a great deal to consider.

 
Sepember 13, 2009: Training on the Ages and Stages Questionnaire

In mid-September ACDS sponsored a presentation by educational therapist, Cynthia Landes,MPH,MA,ET/P focusing on the Ages and Stages Questionnaires-3 (ASQ-3)used by her school and many others as a brief screening assessment of children in early childhood settings. 

The interesting thing about this kind of assessment is that this is completed by parents, then scored and reviewed by the institution. Here are many reasons for using the questionnaires.  Essential to making the choice to do so is the belief that parents usually want what is best for their children and will reveal their concerns if they are respected and feel they can trust the program their child is attending.  The documents are standardized and validated, available in many languages, easy to score, not too time intensive and reasonable to purchase.

A large group of early childhood professionals gathered to hear how this tool indicates parents concerns regarding a number of skills. Ms. Landes shared a questionnaire that would be administered for children who are four years old and participants worked their way through part of it to understand how the questions are scored and what they indicate. The questionnaire was divided into sections for communication, gross motor skills, fine motor skills, problem solving and personal and social skills. Several members of the audience shared their very positive experiences with the ASQ-3.  There was discussion regarding follow-up when concerns are identified and making community referrals as they are needed. It was clear that this tool would be helpful in communicating with families and assuring that children are receiving attention to their needs as early as possible.

The questionnaire can be purchased by contacting Paul Brooks Publishing at www.brookespublishing.com.

 
October 11, 2009: Discussion - Intervention with the Angry Child

The Angry Child

On October 11th, 2009 Phyllis Rothman moderated  a round table on the topic of the angry child with ACDS members.  She was informative and inclusive and participants covered a lot of ground.  The group talked about the various functions of anger in young children, which most often is to help the child differentiate between self and other and develop normal aggression.  It can also be a signal from an overly taxed system. We get called in most often by schools or parents when a child’s anger has become problematic.

We, as professionals, begin by keeping in mind the developmental stage of both parent and child as we begin by trying to separate normal anger from less typical  anger. With normal anger we often talk to parents about aggression, differentiation and what first autonomy looks like.  We help them know that young children are learning to process waiting, loss and disappointment, often equipped with a frustration tolerance that is just developing.  We support the parent in tolerating these negative feelings in their child.  If we can interpret the child’s world view it frees up the parents; this can help them move from personalization to empathy. The goal is that they in turn will help the child tolerate those same negative feelings.

Atypical anger is more of a puzzle to sort out. This anger is often one in which a child becomes regularly disregulated by internal and/or external cues to such an extent that their behavior impacts their entire world (home and school).  In this case we look more closely at their individual biology.  Are they so busy trying to manage an internal state that they don’t have anything left to manage the external world? How does their system interact with their environment? We may look at the size of the classroom, the noise and light levels, the proximity of the other children.  We are looking to see if this child gets easily overstimulated (by light, noise or physical proximity). Or is he understimulated and are his behaviors sensory seeking?

Everything that impacts the child’s system (internal and external) is looked at: physiological and psychological issues, sensory issues, medical issues, family issues and of course the child’s own emotional life. How much or how little do they like to be noticed? What is their mood like? Are they interested in other children?  Do they have friends?  How do they seem to feel about themselves?

After the information gathering (which is ongoing) we might begin work with the family (using various tools which include narration and possibly a therapeutic companion. We may make referrals to other professionals including occupational therapists and speech therapists. New information on affect and physiology often calls for an integrated approach in which a team of professionals unravels the knot.

One key point made throughout the roundtable was the importance of establishing a good connection with the parents. The child then picks up permission to separate; we can better observe and support the family.  When the parents trust us then they give us more information and we have the opportunity to educate.  It was also noted that we as professionals need to get support in order to do this work well.  As Phyllis said “Unravel the knot, tell the story, tell the story, tell the story!  Get support for yourself to process the affect.”   It was a lively and informative discussion

 
May 16, 2009 - How to Talk with Parents about Concerns about their Child - Notes
How to Talk With Parents About Concerns About Their Child      

On Sunday May, 16th ACDS held a Roundtable about talking with parents about concerns that you have about their child.  The topic was very rich.   What was made very clear by those with a great deal of experience was that the relationship that the professional makes with the parents will provide the underpinning for any/all content in relation to the child.

Professionals in the group had much to consider as individuals and institutions.  What is the developmental level of the child and the family?  How does the professional balance what they know about the importance of early intervention with their “read” on what a particular family is able to manage?   What do other professionals see?  How can they partner with the family around creating successes for the child?  One clinician spoke of beginning a relationship with the parent by using an observational/behavioral approach.  This involves making direct observations of the child’s successes in the setting.  These “success” observations are descriptive enough to provide education for the parent as to what they might be considering when looking at a child.  Creating a “bank” of positive and accurate observations helps the parent to know that the professional sees and likes the child.  This belief is essential in any parent-professional relationship and will increase the likelihood that the parents will be receptive to hearing the professionals concerns.

Institutions can support their team members by having a protocol in place for difficult conversations.  The protocol provides containment for team members who have front line duty in high affect (very emotional) situations.  Protocols might involve time set aside for multiple meetings with parents.  These multiple meetings will allow parents to digest big news over time with team support.  Protocols might involve something as simple as always speaking in “I” statements which will pull the parent into the conversation rather than put them on the defensive.  Protocols might involve always soliciting parent expertise.  Protocols might involve time set aside for team meetings where all the appropriate people are brought up to date so that the institution can provide a unified front keeping the focus on the child and the message.    When discussing a specific difficult moment with parents be sure to back up a few steps so that any incident can be put in context.  Solicit parent input and expertise.  “I/we wonder what you may be seeing at home?”

There was interest in finding ways to share and educate parents about normal child development, and the Ages and Stages Questionnaire was discussed. There was a lot of interest in a presentation on this.

One of the participants, Arthur Sellers, told us about a non-violent crisis intervention training that is useful with acting out children. He mistakenly called it SIPPS, which is a different program. The program is actually called CPI (Crisis Prevention Institute). It has training programs and resources for myriad human services and has a Nonviolent Crisis Intervention program, for which it does 2-day trainings. Arthur felt that it was very applicable to work with young children.   
 
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